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We practice what
some might consider an unusual lifestyle, but it works well
for us and we try hard to focus on what we consider
important to us in this life, the things we can experience
and effect. Like a friend of mine says: we make the most of
all that comes, and the least of all that goes.
In 2007, we sold
our house, our furniture and most all the extra stuff that
we did not need nor want. We did this to live full time in
our RV, to travel the USA and in particular, spend a lot of
time in the most beautiful places in this country. More on
that later....
Laura had a
multidisciplinary background as an accredited geologist,
computer trainer, web designer and small business owner. I
worked in the commercial AudioVisual industry at for over 25
years, over half of that time at the senior designer level.
I'll say that meeting Laura did wonders for my career, but
that is another story....
Laura and I are
soul mates, having lucked into love at first sight quite
literally. We got married in 1997 and have no children of
our own. Shortly after marriage, we planned a new home from
scratch, from an empty dirt lot in a new home subdivision
and oversaw it's construction each day, stud by stud, wire
by wire, until completion 5 months later. We outfitted our
home with tasteful, quality furnishings and added a huge
deck in the back with a hot tub and built-in grill. We got
to know the neighbors shortly after and assumed at the time
we would live in this, our dream home, for a lifetime.
We went forth from
this point, loving life, our home and our careers. We liked
the fact that it was in a HOA and that everyone had to keep
their lawn looking good. We bought in 1998, and we had
equity in the home. We were slowly paying off the mortgage
and property values were rising at the time. We bought into
the whole suburban living thing.
After a few years
however, it seemed that the longer we lived in our home, the
less satisfaction we got back, both in terms of home
ownership itself and the particulars of our suburban
lifestyle.
Maybe I was going
through the mid-life crisis, maybe not. But we wanted to go
out and be more adventurous again. We had become couch
potatoes. We ate in front of the TV at dinner, we did not
exercise, and we were becoming quite heavy and flabby. Was
the house the reason? When we first met, we kayaked, hiked,
biked, white water rafted, skied, cross-country skied, and
camped. We had done none of those things when we got the
house. We had put all of our energies into the house and not
into the fun things that had made us fall in love with each
other.
At the time, we
thought the solution to our dissatisfaction was to get an RV
for weekend getaways. We thought an RV would be just the
ticket to re-energize our lives.
I initially
started looking into EarthRoamers, a very expensive type of
Truck Camper/RV. It was way too expensive for us, more than
many diesel pushers even. It was a pipe dream. But in doing
further research and reviewing our finances, it looked like
we could afford a truck camper and a Ford F350 truck. I
spent a lot of time, over a year, on the
RV.net
forums to research trucks and campers. We got the truck
locally in December of 2005 and drove out to Denver,
Colorado to buy the camper in spring of 2006. Since we were
already at the foot of the Rockies, we immediately took a 2
week trip in the process. We quickly found that we loved our
rig and the feeling of freedom it offered us. Even as rank
RV beginners, our first outing was a smashing success and
the narrative of this trip and photos can be seen on the
Previous Trip. We
were both sold on the RV lifestyle.
We took the rig
home and used it for weekend trips that summer.
In 2006, I was
extremely fortunate that I was able to arrange a six week
sabbatical from work. We used the opportunity to take our
truck camper and newly added enclosed utility trailer on a
dream trip out west. The narrative of this second much
longer trip and photos can be seen on the
Long Trip.
This 6 week trip
was a fundamentally life changing event for both of us. We
had an amazing time and did not want it to end. Indeed, we
stretched it out to the last possible second. It made us
realize that life is short and that home ownership was
largely preventing us from leading the kind of lives we
really want to live. We don't have kids after all and we
knew right then that we want to travel extensively and live
in scenic, different areas of the country, particularly near
and in National Parks.
With the mortgage,
the property taxes, utilities, lawn care, storage,
newspaper, maid, insurance, HOA fees, and maintenance we
were averaging about $3000 in expenses a month. We both
worked full-time and many of our weekends were cleaning up
or maintaining the home, and not having the adventures we
really wanted to have. We were feeling stifled by the home.
We wanted out.
From the time that
we both realized that we needed a change, to the time we
sold the house, we started purging ourselves of possessions.
I sold a lot of stuff on eBay and Craigslist. Laura got me
to read
Your Money or Your Life (YMOYL)
and it hit
home to me, showing me a different way to look at money and
the time spent in pursuit of it. We went through all of the
steps and continue to do so.
Having the house
and being able to sell it with a profit, helped us get that
much closer to financial independence then if we had been
renting the entire time. Fortunately for us, we had bought
the house at a low period, and sold, not at the peak but
close enough, so that we got a profit out of the deal.
So, soon as we
returned from this second major trip, we immediately made
plans to change our lives and lifestyle. We wanted to sell
the house, most of our possessions and live a very
different, simpler life. Laura promptly devoted herself
full-time to being the project manager for both of these
tasks and excelled in both, making a website for the house
that we sold ourselves, banking an extra 3% in the process
and with the help of my wonderful mother-in-law, organizing
the estate sale which we sold most of our possessions.
We sold our home
May 2007. The feeling of freedom and relief was
indescribable. Hopefully, we will never again own a
stick'n'brick.
We
promptly moved our rig over to
Prince William Forest
Park,
specifically in a beautiful 2 acre open meadow, surrounded
by woods, with full hookups for our rig. We enjoyed our
first night in the spot, dining alfresco outside
under the stars with a bottle of champagne.
Laura was already
volunteering at the visitor center of this gem of a park, so
we got to live free there for a year while Laura garnered
valuable NPS experience. I still commuted to work during
that time.
The next year, we
lived at a private campground near Winchester, Va. Laura
work-camped for our site and I continued to commute. While
the experience was valuable, we found as time went on that
this particular campground had inconsistent management. We
lived there just under a year there, a mixed experience but
one where we learned from so, it was still a positive
experience.
All this time,
Laura was applying for NPS Ranger jobs. In the spring of
2009, she accepted a wonderful position at
Cape Hatteras
National Seashore, where she started in April 2009. I
retired from my company shortly after and joined Laura at
the beach. The park provided us a RV pad to live on that was
close to the beach.
After a couple
months walking the beautiful beaches there, I volunteered at
the Park's maintenance department and spent a fruitful
summer mowing, weed whacking, painting and general park
assistance.
Laura's seasonal
park position is now over and we are traveling for the
winter of 2009-2010. We hope to be in another National Park
by next spring!
The adventure will continue, check out the
Road Trip 2009 for now.
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